The pain of losing/missing someone

               Missing Someone??????                                                 

The experience of losing someone or missing someone in life binds us to pains, suffering, stress, and often highly challenging to come out of, moreover, we encounter the loss more than once in our life. The loss in life is a common factor to all of us, often considered as a test to us by life however, the question here for us is whether we prepare ourselves mentally and physically to emerge from those lost or missing feelings. According to many of us, the loss means a loved one's death be it a grandparent, parent, brother, sister, husband, wife, children, relative, friend, or animal. In my opinion, apart from the death of someone, we sometimes encounter another sort of missing or losing. Let us take a moment and give it thinking over my suggestions. 

Well, take for an example, in our relationship, we have many heated arguments with our beloved ones, unwanted fights, and lots and lots of painful stuff due to which many leave us and go away. Though the pain of missing someone hampers us badly, the unforgiving attitude, egoistic nature, unreadiness to accept the person like earlier, thinking about society opinion on your decision, and doubts whether the person would change hinder us from going back to the person. 

Decide now to amend your relationship when your beloved one is alive and away not after dead and gone. Examine now with whom you have fought at some moment and detached from them. 

Knowing that the ego, unwanted words, useless arguments have broken your relationships, friendships, and fellowship with your beloved ones, kept them away from you visibly at a distance, Go talk to them, show them that your love for them is more significant, meaningful than those unnecessary words, egoistic nature, fights, misunderstandings. It could be your parents or your brothers, sisters, relatives or your neighbors, your sons, and daughters, your husbands, wives, your friends, classmates, your inlaws, your children, your boyfriends, and girlfriends. 

I wish profoundly that you approach them with a forgiving attitude, sorry feelings, hugging them, crying with them, eating with them, going out with them, gifting them what your beloved ones like the most, having a walk with them, and enjoying your time with them forever in the union. 

Dear Readers, kindly get ready, hurry up, it is already time. There is no use in crying over the spilled milk. Before the person completely disappears from you forever, throw away your ego, unreadiness, revenging attitude, unforgiving attitude, for the person you are missing today who is present somewhere may not be there after sometimes when you look for. 

Standing with those who lost beloved ones 

Deeliban Michael